I've been a really bad friend to you lately, not getting back to your comments. Aurora left today, and we were reminiscing about high school and so, strangely, I've been thinking about you all day. And I really miss you. And love you. And I'm really glad that you're coming to my wedding. And we should talk more. Wish you could come up to the river.

Another random question that you don't have to answer: Do you ever just have regular boring (or, vanilla, rather) sex with someone you're really into because you love them? And, in that event, do you ever think "God, this is boring" or "This reminds me of that time on set...". Is non-professional sex for you like when an amazing chef goes to a dinner party at the home of someone who doesn't have a culinary arts degree? Is there ever snobbery/judgement of us regular people who aren't as experienced/adventurous/exciting/whatever? Do you ever/have you ever had sex with someone not involved in porn?

Ok, sorry for all the public questions...and for the amount of them. And I think I've asked some before, but since you were on my mind today, I just kept thinking of ones I wanted to ask you...